Tips On Having A Successful Affair
An affair is normally exciting and no one likes to get caught at all. Unfortunately many people get caught because they don’t know how to run an affair successfully. Outlined below are tips on having a successful affair.
Never Tell Anyone
You don’t want your spouse to know, so don’t tell anyone and by anyone, your friends, siblings, colleagues, teammates and so on are in the list. Word gets around quick once you tell and soon everyone will know including your spouse. You might be tempted to brag about that hot older woman or younger man in your life but remember you are increasing the chances of everyone finding out and your affair will be doomed from then on. Keep it private, it is a private affair after all! For further tips on keeping your web site secret, check this article out!
Don’t Leave Evidence Lying Around
This is an obvious tip but many people unfortunately become careless and leave evidence for their spouse to find. Delete all the e-mails and text messages as soon as you have read them, take a shower after a session with your secret lover and wipe off all the lipstick from your face.
Clear your search history on your computer before logging out and delete all the naughty downloads from your secret lover if any. Log out all chat accounts after clearing all chat history of course. This will prevent your spouse from “accidentally” stumbling upon this evidence.
Come Up With A Secret Code
Establish secret codes where both of you can tell each other when it is safe to talk or when signalling some sort of affectionate sign and so on. This way you will be discreet and no one will ever notice any suggestive language or behavior between you and your lover.
Make Your Cover Story Flawless
As you are going home or before you leave for home, ensure that you get your story straight. Think carefully and come up with something that will convince your spouse. You could still think of a great cover story before even going to your tryst and tell your spouse then.
Maintain Your Routine And Behavior
Get home the usual time and do the things you normally do with your spouse. Go to your anniversary vacation just as you normally do and don’t change your way of dressing or show unusual attention on your looks. Create time with your lover but make sure it doesn’t interfere in a major way with the routine back home. Veering from your normal routine or behavior usually makes the spouse suspicious and is often a dead giveaway when she or he is already suspicious.
Don’t Fall In Love
You want a successful affair then let it be all about wild passion and a great time. Falling in love can be good thing but it is often times a bad thing in an affair, because jealousy also rears its ugly head. It often leads to the end of an affair when you start making demands on your secret lover because you are jealous.
You will also start showing signs that you are in love with someone else which your spouse will definitely not fail to notice. So don’t ever fall in love with your secret lover if you want a long and successful secret affair.
With the above tips you will most likely get away with your secret romantic escapades for a long time.